Children are told to think for themselves.

Yet, that is mostly not what we really want them to do. Conformation to social norms usually takes precedence in the real world. So,

the real message is: Don’t think for yourself.

Do as we do.
And that is what most people end up doing.

What does that imply?

It implies that

children may get confused.

On the one hand they are told to make up their own mind, but on the other hand they are forced into obedience to social norms. In other words,

they are raised by their parents like princes/princesses but then subdued by their peers into slavery.

As a result people tend to live in a phantasy world. A world of make-belief, that we are rational and responsible moral agents. Yet, in reality

we are primates

copying our conspecifics. We imitate.

We imitate because

the whip of social coercion is painful.

It is painful and direct. Personal responsibility diverging from social norms is treated as treason.

It implies that

we are not nearly as rational as we often think we are.

This absolves us also from our moral responsibility.

It allows us to exploit animals and to destroy the world,

without feeling guilty, without remorse.

But not being rational and not being morally responsible also implies we are not much different from other primates and from other animal species.

We are animals.

People tend to hide in the crowd. They rarely want to take full responsibility for their actions. If they would, they should drastically change their habits, but if they don’t they should give up their notion of being special. Either way,

we need to change.

Either from thinking we are special, to really living up to it,

or from behaving like beasts to really accepting that we don’t deserve much better.