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I want to feel good about my relationship, because
\na. It is not going well, so it makes me feel bad, and I just want to feel good<\/a>.
\nb. It is going well and I want a(nother) child. But then the question is: Why do you want a child? I.e. what do you really want?<\/a><\/p>\n

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\n\"What<\/a>\"\"<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I want to feel good about my relationship, because a. It is not going well, so it makes me feel bad, and I just want to feel good. b. It is going well and I want a(nother) child. But then the question is: Why do you want a child? I.e. what do you really want? 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